Friday, March 25, 2016

Good Friday...

Today is Friday,  March 25, 2016.  But it's not just any Friday - at least not for believers of the Christian Faith.  Today is the day that Christians observe the crucifixion of Christ, "Good Friday." 

This won't be a long post, as I'm at work (on another project), and will be leaving soon so I can gather the not-so-little-anymore people so we can go to church this evening.  I remember when I was younger,  Good Friday always meant a midnight musical at my church.  Um, yeah. Those days are long gone,  as I would more likely be turning over at midnight on a Friday these days than out anywhere!  Anyway, I digress. I couldn't let Holy Week pass without reflecting on Christ's death and it's meaning for believers. 
Bible scholar, stellar Sunday School student or not, most people have heard of The Crucifixion.  Whether you observe the holiday or not, at this time of year the airwaves are flooded with Holy Week programming, such as last week's  "The Passion," as well as "Risen" and "Young Messiah" in theaters.  So I think it's safe to say we are all familiar with the story,  although not the whole story,  but an amazing midpoint to a story that was first foretold many years before it happened,  way back in the Old Testament.  Just briefly, the book of Isaiah (Isaiah 53) spoke of the "substitutionary death of Christ" as replacement of the traditional Passover Ceremony.  Sidenote: for a more detailed analysis of this subject, head over to this site for this writing, Seeing Christ Through Old Testament Prophecy, at lettersofchrist.com.

Anyhoo, believers know that this day represents the fulfillment of the prophecy that a savior would be sent into the world and, blameless, would shoulder the sins of the world, in redemption.  All born out of God's love for us.  As stated in John 3:16, "For God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but shall have everlasting life."  Or this one found in Romans 5:8, "But God commendeth His love toward us, in that,  while we were yet sinners,  Christ died for us."  So, without getting too deep,  that is indeed good news and why we call this a "Good Friday." 

So take time today to reflect on how Christ's death was a necessary midpoint to the story that began with His birth of a virgin mother...  

Ah, but as it's just the midpoint, that means there has to be an ending, right? Stayed tuned! Questions,  comments or just to say "hey," you know the drill, Holla @ Darvi!  Be blessed!

P.S. - I had finished this earlier, but just got in from church, listening to seven (7) sermonettes on the 7 last utterances of Christ when he was on the cross and it was outstanding!  It was the first time I've been able to hear it because I've always been tied up in recent years.  

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Wednesday Radomness!



Happy Wednesday.  Hump Day.  Just over half done with the work week (if you're a Monday-Friday worker), countdown to the weekend.  Yeah, all of that!  I tried something new with google and the ads; let me know how it looks (I haven't seen them yet...).  Anyway, I gotta catch you up on all that has happened in the past week...

So today was the day after election day here in Illinois; we had a number of key races going on (besides the Presidential Primary).  It was an exciting day for me because I was able to get the Teen registered and he was also able to vote (because he'll be 18 prior to the November election).  Now, of course he was a bit miffed at me because I made a big deal out of it (with pictures and everything) and the registrars also made a big deal out of it.  So he was NOT a happy camper!  He gave me the full teen unaffected stare:



Now ask me do I care?  Survey says:  "No!"  It was a monumental occasion and deserved to be captured!

This past weekend, I had the distinct honor of joining the ranks of the Top Ladies of Distinction (TLOD); a professional humanitarian organization that services youth and adults. I am so very excited about this new chapter in my life and hope to make a real difference, (even more so than I already have with my current affiliations), in the very near future.  I was inducted at the Area III Conference in Skokie, Illinois, and enjoyed the remainder of the conference:  professional development workshops, business meetings, presentation and celebration of graduating seniors, and fellowship with the other ladies.  Of course I took a ton of pictures, but here is my very first one as Lady Darvionne:



Don't I look excited????  If you are interested in seeing what the Top Ladies are all about, you can check out the national website here.  Now that the festivities are over, it's time to get to work, and I'm up to the challenge!

I left the conference early enough to make it to the second service on Sunday (y'all know I don't play about church on Sundays) and I'm so glad I did! To me, my week just goes better when I start it in church, ya know?  The sermon was titled:  What will you do with Jesus?  The text:  Matthew 27:15-26.  The heart of the message?  In the words of that old Bill Withers song:  Who is He and what is He to you (relationship)????

Monday night found me in Week 7 of my class (yes, the weeks are flying by).  We are still in the old testament, and the lesson was on Atonement (studying the books of Exodus, Leviticus and part of Numbers).  And it was a great class with lively discussion (as usual), but that's not really what I want to talk about today.  Today during some downtime at the project, I had occasion to do the reading for next week's homework, which is on the subject of Leadership.  And given that I just cast my vote on yesterday for my choices of the leadership of the country and in some of my state and county offices, I figured it would be a good time to share that lesson with you.  Ready?  Let's go.

Each lesson in the workbook begins with a scripture and then a section called "Our Human Condition."  The one for this lesson reads as follows:  "We cannot tolerate political disorder and confusion.  We swing between desiring unity born of faithfulness and want to 'do our own thing.'  We need leadership.  Please, somebody give us a sense of direction."  Now I felt this discussion to be apropos, given that we are voting this year to elect the new leader of the United States.  In this lesson, we begin with the book of Joshua, which is a transitional book, taking Israel from the time of Moses into the promised land.  From there, we move into the book of Judges.  Now, this was a time where Israel had no king and God was the ruler of the people.  However, if you're even just a tiny bit familiar with the old testament, then you know that this didn't work out so well... According to the lesson, the recurring pattern during the period of the judges was apostasy (abandonment of faith), punishment, penitence and peace.  Sounds kinda like the cycle we're in at the moment...

Throughout the bible, God has used unlikely people to be his instruments.  The judges were no different.  The three noted in the lesson were Deborah, Gideon and Samson.  Nothing extraordinary about them, yet they were called and used to fulfill God's purposes for His people.  Anyhoo, the lesson goes on to say: "God calls leaders to give people a sense of direction and purpose.  When the leaders are godly, they give sound direction; when they are disobedient or ambivalent, they lead people astray."  The lesson then goes on to ask questions, and the one that stood out for me, was this one:  "Describe what would happen if in your country or your church or your household 'all the people did what was right in their own eyes' (Judges 21:25)."  Kinda sounds like what we are seeing today, huh?  

I know this is a bit different from my usual type of posts, but still important nonetheless. Whatever your political affiliation/viewpoint, it is extremely important that you vote, but also and perhaps even more importantly, that you pray for whomever wins the election (for someone must win and someone else will lose) that they lead with integrity and wisdom and that God will heal our land.  We are truly in need of some healing around here!  "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and heal their land."  2 Chronicles 7:14

We have some work to do in this country; I am growing increasingly concerned about what the future will look like for my not-so-little people.  So as you go about your daily life and say your prayers, throw some in for us - it's critical!

Am I concerned for nothing?  Oh, and we lost another this morning, Darryl Coley, who had one of the most wonderful voices in gospel music.  Don't believe me?  Check out this beautiful song by him here.  Anyway - am I concerned for nothing??? You know the drill, Holla @ Darvi!  Be Blessed!

xoxo 

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

I pray, you pray, we pray!

Happy Wednesday, Blogland!  Yes, I know I only have 28 minutes of Wednesday left (Central time), but hey!  I hope everyone's been having a great week so far, I must confess, I have been really chillaxing this week- enjoying the time off while I can and just kinda going with the flow...  This will be a very short post, I just really wanna share some thoughts with you about prayer.

So I've shared with you that I've been keeping a faith journal that has a prayer section (soon to be upgraded to a stand-alone prayer journal).  In it, I've been writing out specific prayer requests for family, friends, my church, etc. (and some of yours as you have sent them to me).  The other thing I've been doing is making sure to keep a list of answered prayers (that will make sense if you've seen the movie "War Room").  This morning I said a fervent prayer over a particular situation in my life (I was feeling a little anxious, I will not lie) and within a few hours I had positive confirmation of something I had not been aware of that was the answer to my prayer.  Answered prayer.  Tonight I had occasion to go back through that prayer section again because I got some very good news from a friend of mine that was the answer to a prayer I've been praying with and for her for a long time now and I wanted to note the date that the prayer was answered.  I took a moment to look through the pages and just see how many prayers that have been answered on behalf of myself and others - and I just had to smile.  I also noted prayers that haven't been answered (yet), but because I have a concrete record of answered prayers, I will just keep praying on those things and when the time comes, mark them off as well!  So not so long after I got the good answered prayer news, I got another notification that some prayers had not been answered in the way expected and there was some disappointment, both on my part as well as the person I was praying for.  And it got me to thinking about an article I read the other day, that I wanted to share with you here:  "God has not abandoned you:  why we must pray through despair."  You can read it here.  I read it the other day from a Facebook link and it really stuck with me and I knew I wanted to share it with you here.  The reason that it stuck with me is because I am a person who experiences the ups and downs of this faith walk, sometimes multiple times a day!  There are times when I feel God is very, very far away and other times when I feel that He is right here with me and we're conversing.  Reading this article calmed me down, frankly, and let me see that I'm not alone in the roller coaster relationship I sometimes have with God.  Please take a look at the article if you feel like God is far away and not hearing your prayers...

I posted a few months ago about my answered prayer rock I received on New Member Sunday at church (which is still on my dresser).  Remember?  In case you've forgotten, here it is again:



It, along with the answered prayers recorded in my journal are a tangible reminder that God does hear and that He is still answering prayer. I leave you today with this scripture that sums it all up:

Matthew 21:21-22New American Standard Bible (NASB)

21 And Jesus answered and said to them, “Truly I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ it will happen. 22 And all things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”
   
Have a prayer request?  Holla @ Darvi and I will put you on my list!  Or, if you have answered prayers to share, let me know that too!   As always, be blessed!!!
xoxo

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Is your living in vain???

Hello Blogland!  I hope that everyone had a great weekend (we have been having great weather here in Chicago, today it was low 50s- Spring is on its way)! I went to my first painting party at Colorful Canvas, which is owned by one of my sorority sisters (I don't know her personally) and had a blast!  One of my girlfriends hosted the party, brought together about 14 of us to paint a picture that she selected.  Even as a crafter, I can say that it was very challenging and I have even more respect for artists!  If you are in the Chicago area and looking for  a fun evening with girlfriends, a kids' party or even family, you can check out Colorful Canvas Art Parties here.  Ok, so here is my masterpiece (ignore the squiggly lines, my hand wasn't very steady):



Not too shabby, eh???  Today I got to spend time with the Tween, doing some Easter shopping.  In pure frugal fashion, I got her 3 dresses, from the clearance rack at K & G, originally $100, for $9.99 each.  Oh yeah, we did that today!!!  And I had a coupon... Yeah, I shop like a Boss!!!

Moving on to the topic of today's post - Is your living in vain???  If you listen to Gospel music, you may be familiar with The Clark Sisters and a song they recorded back in the 1980s called, "Is My Living in Vain."  The lyrics are below (courtesy of AZ Lyrics):

"Is My Living In Vain"

Is my living in vain?
Is my giving in vain?
Is my praying in vain?
Is my fasting in vain?

Am I wasting my time?
Can the clock be rewind?
Have I let my light shine?
Have I made ninety-nine?

No, of course not
It's not all in vain
No, no Lord, no
'Cause up the road is eternal gain

Is my praying in vain?
Is my labor in vain?
Is my singing in vain?
Is my speaking, is it in vain?

Is my playing the organ in vain?
Is my praying in vain?
Is my, is my, is my labor in vain?
Is my singing, singing, singing, in vain?

No, of course not
No, of course not
No, of course not

No, no, no, no, no, no
Of course not
No, no, no, no, no, no
Of course not

It's not all in vain
Up the road is eternal gain

Is my praying in vain?
Is my, is my, is my labor in vain?
Is my singing, singing in vain?
I know I'm speaking in vain

Is my playin' this organ in vain, at the temple
At the cathedral, at all these churches?
Is my praying, my praying, my praying, in vain? Ooh

Is it in vain? Is it in vain?
Is it in vain? Is it in vain?
No it ain't in vain
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

No, no, of course not
No, no, no, no, no, no
No, no, no, no, no, no
Of course not

No, no, no, no, no, no
Of course not
No, no, no, no, no, no
Of course not

It's not all in vain
It's not all in vain
It's not all in vain
It's not all in vain
It's not all in vain
'Cause up the road is eternal gain

If you are interested, you can hear the song, from a live recording in 1980, here.  Now, this was The Clark Sisters before the money, so they may look a tad different than what you are used to...

I'm sure I'm not the only person who has ever wondered whether this life we are living is "worth it."  I mean with all of its trials, tribulations, hard times, and if you add trying to live right to it, it's more than a notion, and I've sometimes wondered if it's all in vain???  

On Sunday, Pastor Singleton's sermon was captioned, "Living a Life that Matters," text verses Luke 9:44-56.  He started off asking the question, "Is the world a better place because you were born?"  The answer, he said, depends on if you live a self-centered life or an others'-centered life.  Pastor went on to discuss King Nebuchadnezzar (Daniel 4:28-35) and his fall because of his puffed up spirit, in contrast to how Jesus humbled himself and became nothing so that we could be saved (Philippians 2:1-11).  He noted that humility leads to exaltation - it takes humility to be saved.

Pastor Singleton also made a very profound statement that rings true:  Sometimes we make the foolish mistake of focusing life on quantity instead of quality - quality of life trumps quantity.  He then noted that one can't live a successful life without "intentionality,"  and that you need positive intentionality;it's not enough to have great talent.  (To tie it in with the text, Pastor Singleton noted that Jesus was headed to Jerusalem with intention for his fate to fulfill the prophesy).  He then said something that really resonated with me; he spoke about how when you lose a person that you care about, that had value to you, you have a hole in your heart when they leave.  And I KNOW that to be the truth; my heart has a series of small holes in it from the loss of loved ones, some in death, others who are still here but just not in my life anymore.    

Almost every week in class, Pastor Thornton reminds us that growth is intentional, when it comes to increasing our knowledge of scripture; he did so again tonight, which confirmed my topic for this post.  It got me to thinking, what is intentional living?  On wikipedia, intentional living is defined as "any lifestyle based on an individual or group's conscious attempts to live according to their values and beliefs."  An intentional life in Christ requires that we figure out what will please Christ and do it (Ephesians 5:10); intentional living is our gift back to Him (Dr. Randy Carson, The Intentional Living Center).  Intentionality happens when you combine information, insight and action.  

We must strive to live life with intention - with clear goals and being others'-centered as opposed to being self-centered.  We must live our lives in such a way that the world is a better place because we were born; so that a hole is left in someone's heart when we are no longer here.  My belief is that if we are doing what it takes to maintain this here faith walk, then our living is not in vain.  Intentionality.  Sidenote:  I found this neat blog post about intentional living; you can take a look at it here.  

And I will leave you today with a quote:  "Change is inevitable, growth is intentional."  - Colin Wilson 

So tell me, are YOU living with intention or is your living in vain??? You know the drill, Holla @ Darvi!  Be Blessed!

xoxoxo 

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

All about that GRACE... (to be grounded)

Hey there, it's me again!  By the time you read this, it will be March- this year is going by! 
I want to begin by saying thank you to the overwhelmingly positive response to my super transparent post on Monday.  That was not an easy thing for me to do, but, I am, and have always been a firm believer that the things we go through are to bless others with our testimonies and I felt led to share it (uh, not when I first started writing, but well, yeah, you get the idea!). 

My class is progressing; we skipped a week because our instructor was unable to make it, so instead of Week 6 we just finished Week 5.  And let me tell you this - it is a lot of work to truly study the Bible!  It's a lot of reading, re-reading, homework and outside books.  A lot of reading!!!  This first leg of the class (10 weeks) will end this month, then we have two weeks off, pick back up in April and go through June.  Y'all just pray my strength in the Lawd - 34 weeks total!!!

Anyway, my attempts at humor aside, today's post, in keeping with the theme of the previous two, is still about being grounded - we will take a look at Bishop TD Jakes' watch night sermon from 2015, "Grace to be Grounded."  Now, of course, he started his series with this sermon (and there are two other "grounded" sermons that I won't discuss here but they can be found on you tube or on his website), but I wanted to talk about being grounded first and work my way backwards.  Hopefully it will make sense to you as you read on...

Like my play on words?  I have young people in the house, so I have heard the Meghan Trainor song, "All about that Bass," and so I thought it would be pretty cool.  I assure you that both the Tween and Teen think it's kinda lame... Anyway, I digress - GRACE.  



It is defined in the bible dictionary as follows (found here):

Biblically, grace is unmerited favor. It is God's free action for the benefit of His people. It is different from justice and mercy. Justice is getting what we deserve. Mercy is not getting what we deserve. Grace is getting what we do not deserve. In grace we get eternal life, something that, quite obviously, we do not deserve, but because of God's love and kindness manifested inJesus on the Cross, we receive the great blessing of redemption.
Grace is God's Riches AChrist's Expense. Grace rules out all human merit (Rom. 11:6). It is the product of God that is given by God because of who He is and not because of who we are. It is the means of our salvation (Eph. 2:8-9). We are no longer under the Law but under grace (Rom. 6:14). (See 1 Cor. 15:11Rom. 5:215-20, 2 Cor. 12:9and 2 Cor. 9:8).
Got it?  So let's move on to the sermon - Grace to be Grounded.  You can watch the sermon here.  The sermon text was Psalm 1:1-3 (sidenote- I have such a problem remembering when Psalms should be plural or singular, so if I'm wrong, roll with it...).  It's short, so I will actually include it this time.  

Psalm 1:1-3 (NASB):  
1 How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, 
   Nor stand in the path of sinners,
   Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!

2 But his delight is in the law of the Lord,
   And in His law he meditates day and night.

3 He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water,
   Which yields its fruit in its season
   And its leaf does not wither;
   And in whatever he does, he prospers.


I love this passage of scripture, by the way.  It is not something I was overly familiar with prior to hearing this sermon, but afterwards?  It has joined the ranks of my faves and hopefully you will see why in short order!

Sermon Notes (beginning with scripture overview):
  • Meditate day and night = consistency
    • He who does this shall be like a tree; God will put you in a spot to have an unlimited supply of what you need to finish what He set before you to accomplish
    • Deeper roots = more and more raw resources 
    • Like a tree with roots: position to connect with the resources needed to sustain everything He will bring out of you
  • Stabilize yourself - it's closer than you think it is
    • Live in position, not condition
    • His fruit, His season
    • You need to hear you say:  "Blessed is the Man"
  • Blessed= position
    • We sometimes don't recognize grace because of our problems
    • The presence of trouble does not destroy the potential for triumph! (you'd better say that again, Bishop!)
    • Your leaves shall not wither, He will stop the loss!
  • We have to be a guard over grace; it tells a blessed man what not to do:  
    • Grace must be guarded - be quiet sometimes!
    • Stay out of the counsel of the ungodly; anything that doesn't line up with God's purpose and people who don't understand your destiny
    • Be careful who you let influence you
      • friends mean well, trying to protect you, but God can bless you in the storm (though he slay me, yet will I trust Him (Job 13:15))
    • Be more disciplined
    • Don't be bitter
  • For what God is getting ready to do, you need to be GROUNDED
    • Moving around is cancelling your blessing
    • You need to be grounded in faith, behavior and in the Word
    • Put on the whole armor of God to stand still!
    • Just stand there, no matter what comes
    • If your feet are planted in the house of the Lord, you will flourish in his gardens (See Psalm 92:13)
    • The enemy is trying to fight you for your ground
    • God has given you things that don't look like they're yours, but stand your ground!
    • The more you stand, the more fruit you will have (gifts):  
      • finances, relationships, opportunities
    • God's going to put and position you around something too big for you (and it might scare you)
  • Specific instructions for being grounded:
    • Faith
    • Prayer life
    • Commitment
    • Settle down!
  • You can't get to His will your way
    • You need to be grounded for the harvest; it's coming!
And he closed with having the congregation say this:  "My fruit, My season!"

As usual, I'm sure I didn't do the sermon justice, these are just my notes that I'm sharing with you.  But do you see why I felt that this was such a powerful sermon??? And I have to stop here and thank my birthday twin, Charlotte, again, for sharing this with me.  This was such a powerful series that literally changed my outlook on 2016.  I really do encourage you to go check out the sermon itself using the link above.

So what did I take away from the sermon?  I'm glad you asked (my favorite Rev. Meeks' statement from my days at Salem)!  So here's what Darvi got out of it (besides the notes above):

1) Pray.  Always.  Without Ceasing.  Always.  Pray.  This is how we develop relationship with God; prayer is a conversation.  I promise when I was younger and used to hear the old folks say that, I had no idea what they were talking about!  But, I'm older now, and I get it, I truly do.  As your prayer life grows, it will indeed be a conversation - He will speak to you.  You just have to learn to listen and be open to the many ways in which He speaks.

2) Read the Word.  Not just a cursory, random glance, but really read/study.  I've found some really nice devotionals and bible studies on Pinterest; you can do a search by subject matter and that is one way to get going with it.  

3) Believe.  There's a song that goes "what God has for me, it is for me."  You can hear it here.  You have to truly and deeply within your heart of hearts believe that.  No matter what it looks like now.  If He told you it was yours, it's yours.  But you have to activate your faith and not falter in your belief in His word.  This is hard and I stumble here all the time.  Just being honest... I always want to believe, but then something will happen that causes me to doubt and I have to start all over again.  I'm sure I have missed out on some things just because I faltered at the last minute.  

4) Be committed.  To prayer, to reading/studying, to your faith, in your church attendance, in your tithing - whatever it is, be committed to doing it.  Your commitment should be evident; no one should question it.

5) Stand!!!  Every time I hear this, I think of my good friend's mother, Auntie Barbara, singing this at church when I was younger.  "After you've done all you can, you just stand."  Here's the Donnie McClurkin song, because it is such an awesome song, here.  What does that mean?  It means, get out of the way, sit yourself down somewhere, get rooted and stay there.  Stand does not mean do nothing; it means to do whatever God has told you to do while you wait on Him to bring his promises to you to fruition.  Also a thing I struggle with, because I'm impatient.  But I've learned, just as I'm sure many of you have, that He has a way of making you sit still. I'm just saying... Remember, His Fruit, His Season...

So my friends, if being grounded requires us to activate faith, prayer, commitment and to stand in order to receive things that we don't deserve, how does it happen?  Because surely we all know that we don't deserve anything, right?  The answer is simply this:  Grace.  It is by his Grace that we can even get in the position to be grounded to receive His blessings of our faith and finances.  If you missed those, you can read them here (Grounded in Faith and Grounded in Finances).  

So, my question for you is this:  Who is ready to be like a tree, firmly planted and bearing fruit????  I know I am!  If that's you too, Holla @ Darvi and let's talk about it!  As always, Be Blessed!!!

xoxo