Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts

Friday, September 18, 2015

Mission Organization on a Budget

Happy Friday, everyone!  I don't know about you, but after my whirlwind week, I am ready for the weekend (not that it will be any slower, it's just good to get to the weekend).  

So what are we dishing about today? Prolly this whole moving thing as I'm elbow deep in packing, purging, lifting, unpacking, shopping (each place is different so you invariably have to buy something different to accommodate the new space, no matter what great system you had in place at the old one) and organizing.  That has been the bulk of the week - making the best use of space.  That being said, I'll share some of my organization finds of the week and a few pics (don't want to show too many before I'm finished though, then we'll go room by room). 

Let me start by saying that if I never, EVER step foot in another Wal-Mart, Dollar Tree, Dollar General or Menards for the next six months, I'll be alright!  Those places have been my home this week - blinds, ready shades, baskets, bins, cabinet organizers, candles, lamps (why did they ever make rooms without overhead lights anyway????), food, forgotten school uniforms (the Tween of course), shower rods, towels (what do kids do to towels anyway????), spider spray, wasp spray - the list goes on and on!  Everyday this week has found me in one of these places getting SOMETHING!  And that has zapped the actual packing and moving process (still haven't touched the craft room/office - y'all know that's going to be an interesting process) and just started moving my clothes yesterday.  So think about me as you go about your weekend- I'll still be elbow deep in this moving process.

About the new place - it's coming along.  I haven't taken a picture of the outside yet (I will).  The Tween called it "cozy."  I agree; especially after we get fully unpacked and settled in, and something on the walls- the blank walls are driving me crazy!  I remember back in college, the first thing I would do is get my posters and photos up on the walls, then do everything else; it makes your space feel more like home quickly.  That's my first tip of the day - get something up on the walls!

Moving on, my favorite and best organization finds of the week.  So everyone who knows me knows that Dollar Tree is my favorite cheapy store on the entire earth!  Everything is a dollar... Now, of course you can't buy everything for a dollar, but some things I just don't believe should cost more than a dollar.  Like storage bins/baskets.  Over the years, I have gotten a plethora of storage items from Dollar Tree.  Here's the cutesy baskets that I bought a few years ago for the top shelf of the tall bookcase in the craft room/office (my color scheme is teal-turquoise and lime green):


Cute, right?  Three of them are long and then there are four small baskets (two behind the smaller ones).  I used my tag maker to make tags and added tiny clothespins to label the contents.  They hold office supplies, by the way (envelopes, tape, post-its, staples, etc.).  Effective, efficient and just a dollar each.  You can take $20 to the dollar store and lose your mind!!!  

Fast forward to the new space.  There isn't a lot of cabinet space in the kitchen (and I just found out yesterday that the bottom cabinets only have half shelves.  Half shelves?  Where do they do THAT at????), so I am turning the hall closet into a pantry (adding shelves).  After packing up the pantry at the old house the other day I knew that my system needed a revamp (plus reading all of the inspiration blogs from Pinterest), so I decided to use baskets and bins to organize.  From where?  You guessed it, Dollar Tree.  They always have a regular stock of bins/baskets in their basic colors:  green, blue, red, white and sometimes you can find pink or purple.  For the fall though, they have special colors:  orange and harvest red.  I fell in love with the harvest red, so that's my go to color for the pantry and inside the kitchen cabinets.  The shelves haven't been added yet, but I'm getting prepared for it.  Second tip of the day - moving or remodeling is a good time to take stock of your storage needs and make any changes that you are thinking about.

So here is a sampling of the different types of containers I purchased.  Now, let me tell you, that it was trial and error because I didn't know what would work for which food items.  So I bought 2 of everything and then I've just returned things or bought new ones as I figured it out (good thing they're only a dollar...). 










Again - cute, right???  I think I may have forgotten one, but you get the idea.  So here are three sample photos of how I used some of the containers (the big reveal later) just so you can get a visual:

This small basket is the perfect size to hold coffee pods.
Bonus - it fits into the cabinet perfectly, so I'll make it a coffee center!

This bin was the perfect solution for light bulbs!
This large basket is perfect for my tea (well, some of it anyway).
We drink a lot of tea in our house.
So hopefully you can get a idea of where I'm going with this whole thing, and perhaps it will inspire you to think about some new organization strategies in your own home.  Don't have a Dollar Tree nearby?  You can order online (I've done that before also for bulk items).  You can do that here.

One more thing, this was an impulse purchase (sort of).  As a mom, I am always purchasing things for the kids (when I'm able) but rarely myself. That being said, I was due up for some new bedding and I fell in love with this comforter set at Wal-Mart this week.  It's a Better Homes and Gardens set, which is normally out of my price range, but it was on clearance for $35 (y'all know I love me some clearance!).  And bonus?  You get a free year subscription to BHG with purchase (that was a surprise, but it's worth $20, so I technically only paid $15- WINNING!!!).  Take a look:


Third tip of the day:  don't be afraid to be an aisle walker - find those clearance items and misplaced items (I found this set in the wrong spot two days after I originally saw the king set on clearance)!

That's it, that's all.  The Teen is giving me the side eye because I'm typing and not packing...

What are your favorite budget organization tips to share?  Holla @ Darvi!  Be blessed and have a great weekend everyone!!!

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

My OCD is showing...

Happy Hump Day!  Yeah, bah humbug!  I know that this is the incorrect season for that sentiment, but that's where I'm at with this whole moving stuff. 

A little about me; I'm a perfectionist.  Diagnosed in elementary school.  I also have some OCD tendencies.  Diagnosed my whole life.  Those things being said, any disruption to the order that I set forth in my notebook and in my head just throws me for a loop and sometimes cripples me.  It is also headache inducing...

That's what yesterday was like.  I had a plan, a very good one, I might add, to get the packing done and be on top of this moving thing.  Excepting that other folks (who shall remain nameless) didn't adhere to the plan.  So only about a quarter of the packing was done by yesterday.  A quarter!  And then someone changed the truck from Thursday to yesterday (again, a nameless person).  So it left me discombobulated.  And with a headache.  So I didn't get everything moved in the first round that I planned on.  Which puts the unpacking schedule and plan out of whack, and the cleaning, and the organizing, so on and so forth.  See where I'm going with this????  Grrrrr!

I'm making light of it, but I am seriously discombobulated.  This is something I've struggled with all of my life; it is both a blessing and a curse.  It makes me a very organized, detail-oriented, systematic, and logical person.  Which is great when you need something planned and organized; no detail is left out!  However, it also makes me obsessed with details and if something doesn't go according to plan, it takes me a minute to regroup. It makes me slow to accept change.  It sometimes takes me longer to get things done because everything has to be "perfect."  Um, yeah.  See the problem here?

per·fec·tion·ist
[pərˈfekSHəˌnist]


NOUN


a person who refuses to accept any standard short of perfection:
"he was a perfectionist who worked slowly"
synonyms: purist · stickler for perfection · idealist · pedant

ADJECTIVE

refusing to accept any standard short of perfection.

 

Compulsion symptoms

OCD compulsions are repetitive behaviors that you feel driven to perform. These repetitive behaviors are meant to prevent or reduce anxiety related to your obsessions or prevent something bad from happening. However, engaging in the compulsions brings no pleasure and may offer only a temporary relief from anxiety.
You may also make up rules or rituals to follow that help control your anxiety when you're having obsessive thoughts. These compulsions are often not rationally connected to preventing the feared event.
As with obsessions, compulsions typically have themes, such as:
  • Washing and cleaning
  • Counting
  • Checking
  • Demanding reassurances
  • Following a strict routine
  • Orderliness
Examples of compulsion signs and symptoms include:
  • Hand-washing until your skin becomes raw
  • Checking doors repeatedly to make sure they're locked
  • Checking the stove repeatedly to make sure it's off
  • Counting in certain patterns
  • Silently repeating a prayer, word or phrase
  • Arranging your canned goods to face the same way
Symptoms usually begin gradually and tend to vary in severity throughout your life. Symptoms generally worsen when you're experiencing more stress. OCD, considered a lifelong disorder, can be so severe and time-consuming that it becomes disabling.
Most adults recognize that their obsessions and compulsions don't make sense, but that's not always the case.


So, yeah, this is me.  I have OCD compulsions.  Now y'all know my dirty little secret!  While the logical part of me knows that I'm not perfect therefore anything I do/touch/think/feel will never be perfect, I try anyway.  You'll see, as you witness the move and final product in pictures and prose; I like things a certain way.  Period.

So what's a girl to do when the rest of the world doesn't adhere to her perfectionist standards (besides go behind them and do it right - which I have done on many occasions)?  She breathes - gets out her notebook, and makes a new plan.  

 Philippians 4:6-7New King James Version (NKJV)
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

So am I the only with OCD compulsions and perfectionist issues???? Holla @ Darvi!  And as always, be blessed!  

Friday, August 14, 2015

I don't like change...

Happy Friday to you all!  This weekend I am looking forward to celebrating my friend C-Rob's entry into Club 40!!!  She is such an awesome person and I hope she has the best birthday ever!!! 

I remember when I turned 40.  For the two years leading up to 40, I was so looking forward to it, planned a HUGE celebration and was looking forward to the next chapter of my life.  Until the week of my actual 40th birthday came.  That week found me super down, doubting myself and the many life choices I had made up to that point, and just dreading my birthday.  I felt like I wanted to go to sleep on the eve of my birthday and not wake up until the day after.  I had planned all this stuff and I didn't want to see anybody.  I just wanted to curl up in my bed and watch television.  That's when it first hit me - I don't like change.

I have never been fond of change, yet I've had to endure constant change during my life.  I had to change houses when we had a fire at our house when I was 8 and move to my grandparents house.  I had to adjust to wearing glasses in the 4th grade when rarely anyone else did.  I had to change schools in 6th grade to go to a new school, with new people, in a new neighborhood and take a bus.  My whole world changed when I went off to college.  My world changed again when I graduated from college and came back home to attend law school.  My world changed yet again when I got engaged, got married, bought a house and had a baby.  You get the idea.  Change happens. And yet, I'm almost never prepared for it and fight it every step of the way.

What is change?  Change is defined on dictionary.com as "to make the form, nature, content, future course, etc., of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone: to change one's name; to change one's opinion."  See the full definition here.  So I suppose it would look something like this in picture form:


Now, I'm not a moron. I understand that everything changes and everything has to change.  It just takes me a while to adapt to it and I don't like it.  I also don't like reprogramming my kids for whatever new change lies ahead.  It simply makes me tired...

Let's take moving as an example.  In my life, I've moved 16 times (this includes moving each year for college).  In the past 6 years, I've moved 2 times and am gearing up for another move now.  That's a lot of packing and unpacking.  It's also an adjustment to a new neighborhood, a new house and leaves me feeling unsettled.  I think that's the part that I dislike the most. 

There's also changes like watching your kids grow up.  That is the hardest pill to swallow.  When they are babies and small children, you just love them to pieces and pour everything into them.  Then you have to watch them grow up and change into tweens (and that is more than a notion if you have a daughter), then into teens and then prepare yourself for them leaving you and going off to college.  That's where I am now; the Teen is entering his junior year, so the time for him leaving the nest is close at hand.  And I don't like it one bit!  As much as I want him to grow  up and experience life and everything that comes with it, part of me still longs for the little boy who was my pride and joy, my baby.  In short order, I will go through the same thing with the Tween and I can't even begin to process THAT yet! 

But, when the time comes, I will adapt.  That's one of the two things that happens when change comes; you either adapt or you wither and die (not literally, but figuratively).  I just ran across a quote that I think befitting:  "The bamboo that bends is stronger than the oak that resists."  ~ Japanese Proverb  I'm striving to be more like the bamboo than the oak.  One of my favorite songs is Everything Must Change by Oleta Adams.  Others have sang it, but her version is my favorite.  She has a beautiful voice; you can listen to it here. 

So as I gear up to enter yet another new season in my life and the inevitable change it brings, I hope to embrace it rather than resist it.  At the end, I want it to look something like this:
 


I hope you will pray for me and wish me luck.  My mantra for this time of change is the serenity prayer; maybe it will help you as you go through your own seasons of change.


Am I the only one facing change?  Holla @ Darvi! Be Blessed and have a great weekend!!!