Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Perfect Peace???


Happy Tuesday, Blogland!  Yes, Tuesday, because I couldn’t get myself together enough on Monday to write.  So it is Christmas Week and try as I might to stay calm, I can feel the pressure mounting… And I’m taking a stress test in the morning, so I’m sure that will be an experience!

This year will present a lot of new things for me and the kids:  new place, new traditions (while keeping some of the old ones), new faces (and the absence of old ones) – just a spirit of newness!  I am looking forward to it, and I’m trying my best to assure the kids that everything will be fine, even with all of the change we’ve experienced this year.  Almost my whole family will be over for our annual Christmas Eve social, and I am looking forward to it.  Then afterwards, I have a busy Christmas weekend ahead of me, making new Christmas traditions, which I am also very much looking forward to.  But at the same time… it’s a lot of work to prepare for it all and I am (slightly) behind schedule in my quest for the “perfect” holiday.  Sound familiar to anyone or is it just me????  Now of course I know that there’s no such thing as a “perfect” holiday, but still I try.  There is something about this time of year that just tends to bring out the best in most people and I love to spread joy and cheer!

Speaking of spreading joy and cheer, I spent some time over the weekend volunteering at Victory’s Holiday Giveaway (I love being a part of the Outreach Ministry, feels like home to me), along with the teen and tween.  Look at this beautiful tree (one of several in the lobby area of our church). 
 
And look at me; don’t I look happy to be there??? This is one of my friends from the Outreach Ministry with me.
 
I was working at the check in desk for toys, the tween was a personal shopper and the teen was helping people carry their food baskets and other items to their cars.  It was a great lesson for them and they enjoyed volunteering.  See the joyful look on their faces???  

Nah, just kidding, their usual “unaffected stare” (thanks Missy) was in place!  But they SAID that they enjoyed it.  It really was awesome to see the looks on the family’s faces, especially those who received the personalized shopping done for their family (there were bikes, hockey tables, all manner of goodness)!  Victory really showed up and showed out for this outreach event!

Sunday we had an awesome service at church; Pastor Singleton finished his series on the Gifts of Jesus; this time he spoke about the Gift of PEACE.  There was but one scripture and I will quote it here:

“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.”  Luke 2:14

According to Pastor Singleton’s message, peace is tied directly into why Jesus was born (to make peace between God and the world), see Romans 5:1.  He went on to say that while peace is for everyone, it is not to everyone (see John 3:16-19); instead it is only to those on who His favor rests.  Only those at peace with God can know the peace of God!  That is because peace is relational with God (see John 14:27).  The peace of God is a state of mind; peace must overcome tests, trials and temptations in this life. So how does one have peace in this troubled world??? 

Pastor Singleton compared the two views of peace that most people have: 1) the belief that “peace” means quiet all around and that absolutely everything goes their way, and 2) when in the midst of everything falling apart, you keep your peace by keeping your mind “stayed” on Him.  Let’s dig a little deeper…

For those who believe that all must be well in order to have peace, they will never be “peacemakers” like Jesus because humility is required.  Those with the peace of God can humble themselves to go higher in God and to make peace.  The scriptures show how Jesus humbled himself by making himself nothing (man) and became obedient to death on a cross, all to make peace between God and Man (see Philippians 2:5-8).  Sometimes, in order to make peace, you have to be crucified (make peace with those who have wronged you to be like Jesus). 

Let me put a pin right here and be transparent for a moment:  I. STRUGGLE. WITH. THIS.  DAILY!  It’s very difficult, I won’t lie.  I haven’t quite yet gotten to the point where I can reach out to those folks yet, but, I have made peace with the situation.  Even the hurt and anger is diminishing, so I guess I’m on the right track, eh?  Pastor Singleton also posted the Prayer of St. Francis Assisi; I won’t post it here, but here’s a link for you.  I will be trying my best to live this going forward, I do some of it, but I could do better.  Ever a work in progress…

Back to the sermon; the bottom line is this:  peace with God is relational, while the peace of God is a state of mind.  I’ll just sit this right there for a moment.

So onto one of the other things I’ve been working on this month, my Scripture writing plan.  Yeah, that.  So, I was feeling good about being on task and then, just like that, I fell behind.  And I was so very BEHIND in my Scripture writing plan until I caught up this morning on the train!  Anyhoo, here are the verses for this week (and next week) so that you don’t get behind waiting on me...  It really has been a wonderful walk through the scriptures and I hope you’ve enjoyed sharing it.

December 21 – Luke 1:51-56                                December 22- Luke 2:4-7

December 23- Luke 2:8-12                                     December 24 – Luke  2:13-16

December 25- Luke :17-20                                     December 26- Galatians 4:4-7

December 27- Philippians 2:5-8                           December 28 – Philippians 2:9-11

December 29- James 1:16-18                                December 30- Titus 3:3-7

December 31 – Choose your own verse  

It’s the time of the year when most people reflect on the year past and prepare intentions for the coming year (well, at least I do; it’s one of my favorite processes at the end of every year).  As we prepare to say “sayonara” to 2015 and look with hope towards 2016, won’t you make it your aim to have both peace with God and the peace of God? I’m just saying…

So all that being said, anyone living in perfect peace?  How do you live it?  You know the drill – Holla @ Darvi and let’s talk about it!  Be Blessed – I will be back before Christmas!!!

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Joy- Do you have it????

Happy Thursday, Blogland!!!  I hope that you all had a wonderful week last week!  My week was interesting - my project ended early (on the 3rd), then I got called in for another project that I started on the 10th, so I've been busy again (just when I thought it was about to slow down).  Then Monday I was sitting in the office and my head started hurting, there was pressure in my chest and I couldn't catch my breath.  Could it be the old blood pressure spiking again- yep!  So this week included emergency doctor appointments and will include some tests, including a stress test - y'all continue to pray for me, hear?  All that to say that my time is a little different than I expected it to be right now, but I'm not complaining, not at all!!!

I was going to write last week about the notion of joy, but couldn't get my thoughts together and I wasn't sure if that was what I wanted to talk about or not. I kept going back and forth and then the week got away from me.  Then when I got to church on Sunday, guess what the sermon was about?  You guessed it - Joy.  So that was all the confirmation I needed that this was indeed the right subject!


Getting back to last week, Thursday morning to be exact, I woke up feeling good.  Just an emotional lightness that I felt all the way to my spirit.  It made me pause.  Let me explain - I'm not generally a "peppy" person- those folks actually get on my nerves at times!  On the other hand, I'm not Eeyore either (for you non-Winnie-the-Pooh fans, read about Eeyore here). I'm in the middle generally.  So this indeed made me pause to try to put my finger on exactly what I was feeling.

I tried to analyze the feeling, wondering if it was just happiness that made me feel like that. And then I thought about the things that aren't so great (like I'm STILL not fully unpacked and the disarray in the Cozy House (it is getting better as I figure out where to put things, but that's another story)) - no it wasn't happiness.  Besides, and I think I've said this before, my belief is that happiness is temporary and can change from moment to moment.  So, no, it was more than happy. Contentment?  I chewed around on that one for a moment to figure out if I was really just content... no, not really.  Once again, things could be a lot better in certain areas of my life and I'd definitely be more content!  So nope, not contentment either. So what was it??? That's when it hit me - JOY.  I felt joy!

Why do I say that?  Well, because just as good as I felt on Thursday, I crashed on Friday and didn't feel so good and I was questioning everything and everybody!  Friday night I got some things done and I felt happy again.  But then Saturday morning didn't go as planned and I was back down again.  Sunday came and I was back up high as I made it to church and experienced an awesome worship service - you get the picture.  But even with my emotional ups and downs, I felt an inner peace that has eluded me for some time now; my grandmother had it and it was always something I strived for, but just couldn't seem to attain, while rushing about with the busyness of life.  I felt (feel) that I can finally breathe again - I don't have everything I want, but I have everything I need; I truly believe that God is in charge of everything and I am finally learning to let Him be; I have a renewed sense of purpose in my spiritual walk and I feel like myself again; I am reaping the benefits of my sown seeds of seeking God's purpose and direction for MY life - so yeah, I'd say I have a lot to be joyful about!  

And just what is joy??? My personal definition of joy is when I have peace and contentment in my spirit even when I'm having a bad day and everything is not all "together;" but rather I can be content in looking at the big picture and knowing that it will all be ok, even if it isn't right now... 

According to Rick Warren, "Joy is the settled assurance that God is in control of all the details of my life, the quiet confidence that ultimately everything is going to be alright, and the determined choice to praise God in every situation."  Definition taken from his devotional post, "The Definition of Joy," which you can read here.    

Pastor Singleton's sermon on Sunday was entitled "The Gift of Joy" (he is doing a series on the Gifts of Jesus during this holiday season;last week was hope).  There's two Sundays left in December; you can still come and visit my church if you don't have a church home...  The scripture text was Luke 2:4-12, and told the story of Jesus' birth- ordinary people doing ordinary things when the ordinary was "invaded" by the supernatural!  The angel came to bring "good tidings of great joy" (Luke 2:10).  Jesus was the reason for the great joy and He can still bring joy today.

Pastor Singleton broke down the difference between happiness and joy like this:  

Happy - "because of" - Temporary

Joy - "in spite of" - Permanent

How about that?  By his summation, joy trumps happiness because happiness is tied to your circumstances. I happen to agree with him.  Listen, the scriptures are full of examples of God's people who were able to rejoice even in the midst of suffering, because they truly believed that He was in control.  See Psalm 126:5- "They that sow in tears shall reap in joy." See also Hebrews 12:2 - "Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God."  

The songwriters have written about this notion of joy over and over again, down through the years:

"Still have joy" - Colorado Mass Choir; listen to it here; "Joy" - Rev. James Moore & Mississippi Mass Choir; listen to it here; and one of my favorites (and not just because my daddy is playing on it) "Weeping May Endure for a Night, Joy Cometh in the Morning" - Cosmopolitan Church of Prayer; listen to it here.  

You get the picture.  What am I saying?  Ok, here we go, Darvi's take on this joy thing:  You have to find your way to inner peace despite what is going on outside around you.  You may need to detach from things, from people - it's ok.  You will have to be a little selfish during this process, and that's ok too.  It will take everything you believe about faith and hope to find it, but the result is so very worth it.  And when you find it - there is nothing that can shake it.  Not a bad day, not bad news, not someone's bad attitude (not saying that you won't have a human reaction to those things, because you will)- your inner joy can't be shaken.  It won't happen overnight, you have to grow into this thing.  But when you do, your perspective will change, your thoughts will change, your words will change and your attitude will change- I dare you to try it!  You will find joy in the little things and in helping others. 

This is one of the most joyous times of the year.  People are generally just nicer and everything is so pretty - the mood can be contagious!  But there are also so many people at this time of the year that are down and depressed - the opposite of joy - because they have lost loved ones and are facing their first Christmas without them (or their seventh) or they feel bad that they don't have money to buy gifts - you name it.  And to them I say this - I've been both of those things and they can indeed weigh you down.  But let's not lose sight of the real reason for the season - Jesus and what the gift of His birth brought for us all.  Don't believe me?  Listen to these little diddys- "Jesus is the Reason for the Season" here and "There's no Christmas Without You, here.  Heck, just listen to the whole Kirk Franklin Christmas album!!!  It's on you tube, listen to it here.

Now, I'm not saying that you can't feel bad because things aren't going well or you've had personal tragedies (hello, have we met???  2015 has been one of my most challenging years yet!), but what I'm saying is that you need to know in your heart of hearts that it is all going to be alright despite what it looks like and ultimately, it's not for you to figure out (now, I'm a bit hardheaded, so it's taken me a minute to get it, I'm sure I'm not alone...).  If you need to find a bit of joy, might I suggest volunteering?  Something about volunteering that 
helps you to forget what's not going right in your own world as you make the world a little bit better for someone else.  That always works for me!  Now having joy doesn't mean that you aren't going to have bad days and sad times, they are a part of life.  But what it does mean is that you will be able to weather those storms a little better when then come, because you know that trouble don't last always (yeah, I threw in another song lyric...).

Ok, onto this week's Christmas Scripture Reading/Writing.  I hope that you have been keeping it; the scriptures walk you from the prophesy of the Old Testament through the New Testament.  I look forward each day to the readings (ok, so I miss a day here and there and have to catch up, but I am current now...)

December 14:  Matthew 1:21-25
December 15:  Matthew 2:1-6
December 16:  Matthew 2:7-12
December 17:  Luke 1:26-29
December 18:  Luke 1:30-34
December 19:  Luke 1:35-38
December 20:  Luke 1:46-50

I truly hope that this helps someone; I keep hearing people talk about how bad they are feeling right now and I just wish I could pour my joy onto them!  Instead, I just say be encouraged and seek God, He can give you joy, plain and simple.  Do you have joy in your spirit?  Share with me- you know the drill:  Holla @ Darvi!  Be Blessed!

xoxoxo 

PS- Got some funky formatting thing going on, not cool Blogger, not cool!